When the child starts going to a nursery or school, talk with the institution about child development. The timing of these institutions is such that perfectly suits your child. While the child is away you can work leisurely to finish household chores. 

Within few days you will find that the child herself is eager to get dressed and be ready to go. Of course, she will require assistance at every stage. You will have to prepare her bag and check whether all necessary things activities and learning are there. She might have lost something the earlier day. If the lost thing was really important you must check with authorities of the institution where you have admitted her. 

Better don’t ask her what she would like for her tiffin. Either way it doesn’t make any sense. One, you will not like if she says that keep as little as possible. Two, she may come out with hard to meet demands and you will be in a fix. Take your decision and be assured that when hungry she will find it delicious.  

Equally important thing is to attend your child when she comes back. On returning she will look for you and then ask for lunch. Don’t wait for her demanding food. Keep the lunch ready. Keep in mind that she is both tired and hungry. Therefore ask her to change before eating. Ensure that after a busy day at school and lunch she takes some rest and go to sleep.